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When There Is No Spice In The Bedroom

Dear Thirsty Girls,

I’ve been married for almost 2 years to the love of my life.

We dated in college. I was in love with my bestfriend and I couldn’t be happier. He is caring, sweet, took care of me in every single way BUT one. As boyfriend and girlfriend our sex life was minimal. I would say 1 a week at best and usually I would initiate. I just thought it was because we always had to sneak around to do it. Neither of us had our own places back then.

We got married in 2019. We have fairly traditional families, so we only lived together when we got married. I was so excited that finally, we can explore each other more now. We can have sex whenever and wherever. That never happened! Nothing has changed. Once a week IF I initiate. If i didn’t initiate I bet we’d be intimate only once a month. Am I doing something wrong? Should I be trying harder to seduce my husband? We both work from home now. The environment has gotten really stressful. All we can think about is stress. Could this be the cause of his lack of drive? What should I do?

 

Please help,

Frustrated Lady

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