I just wanted to start by telling you how much I love your show! It has made my Wednesday nights so fun.
Okay, I am a 30 something year old and I have been in a relationship with my college sweetheart for more than 10 years. Sadly, I’ve never had an orgasm. At least, I’m not sure I’ve had one. My partner now is my first everything and I do not want to tell him. I do not want to hurt him. Needless to say, I have been faking it this whole time. Do not get me wrong, I enjoy having sex with him! It just always feels “kulang”, you get what I mean? I’ve tried to have one by myself too… fail. Help. This is not a deal breaker for me, but this is also not something I want to live with for the rest of my life. (we recently got engaged btw) What can I do? Should I just accept that maybe I just won’t ever experience one? ever?