Dear Titas of Thirsty & Thirty,
I’m Imogen. I’m 25 years old, and I’m going through a quarter life crisis. The crisis that I’m currently facing is I met a guy, 7 years older than me. He is very mature, intelligent and we just talk about everything under the sun. I feel like we have a connection similar to what you see in romantic films.
So, we’ve been dating for about 2 months. I met him at a bookshop.
And lately, things have progressed. However, one date night, he confessed a little dark secret. He confessed to me that one drunken evening he accidentally slept with his half sister. He said that incident made intimacy a problem for him. He said that he wanted to be honest and that he made a horrible mistake. And, it would never happen again. He said he feels that I’m the one which is why he’s sharing this dark secret with me.
So, I’d like to know what you titas think and is this a moment to raise the white flag? Or, is he worthy of a second look and should we progress further?
Help,
Imogen