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Is He Right For You? 4 Questions To Ask

Let’s admit that love is the greatest drug of them all.  Studies have shown that when we experience romantic love, the part of the brain that gets activated is the same as when one takes cocaine. We can’t help but feel good from the surge of dopamine. What’s crucial is how we make sure we

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How Being More Attentive Drives Deeper Connections

We sometimes think that sharing our secrets and vulnerabilities with someone drives closeness.  This idea is actually not the case. In The Relationship Cure, Dr. John Gottman, the man who started the Love Lab, discovered something else. He conducted an experiment observing 60 couples in this comfy place, monitoring heart, breathing, and everything inside the

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Say ‘No’ To Bad Dating Habits & Patterns.

  Hello to our Thirsty friends, It’s been a while since our last email. Ciari and I took a break from recording episodes to refresh and experience real-life dating. We’ll update you more on that and share some of our lessons along the way. Alexa, one of our favorite T&T girls, sent us this image

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When I Ghosted Her

Dear Ciari and Bea, I heard that you’re having guys as your guests for the next episode, and I’d like to get their advice on this, because sorry as macho as it sounds, I don’t tell my friends about my love problems. I didn’t expect that the quarantine would make me this lonely, nor did

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When I Regretted The Breakup

Dear Thirsty Girls and Guests, I was dating a guy for 5 years. We were inseparable before COVID-19. We did everything together from sports, to road trips to eating out. We loved each other’s company so much. He was my numero uno. When the pandemic hit, I lost my job. And it was tough on

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When Mom Doesn’t Believe He Is The One

Dear T&T, I’ve been officially dating this new guy for 5 months. Yes, pandemic success! He’s everything I’ve ever asked for. Tall, funny, and smart. He charmed me instantly! In January 2021 he met my family and my best friends – they were not charmed! I thought the meeting went well, but I was wrong.

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When There Is No Spice In The Bedroom

Dear Thirsty Girls, I’ve been married for almost 2 years to the love of my life. We dated in college. I was in love with my bestfriend and I couldn’t be happier. He is caring, sweet, took care of me in every single way BUT one. As boyfriend and girlfriend our sex life was minimal.

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When I Can’t Help But Give Him A Freebie

Dear Thirsty Girls, I’m so happy that your topic is self-love this week. I have to say I’m becoming so much more wiser now in looking for a future partner after a few of your episodes. You always give me the best reminders! So here’s the deal…my love language is giving gifts. So the past

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When I’m Too Much of A Mr. Nice Guy

Dear Thirsty and Thirty! Met a girl at this new place I work at. Immediately she was very engaging, sweet, really extra nice. She would bring dessert and home cooked meals. What a flirt! Of course I flirted back. Then I hear she has a boyfriend But I dunno why she was entertaining me more

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When He Broke Up with Me on Valentine’s Day

Dear Thirsty Girls, When I saw the word heartache on your topic this week, I couldn’t believe it. I’m going through a brutal breakup. I was in a 6 year relationship and honestly we were already talking about our future together. We even had a 5 year plan- 2 kids, a townhouse and even adopting

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When A Guy Is Hot & Cold

Dear Thirsty Girls, I’ll keep this short and sweet. I just downloaded Bumble. I matched with this guy And we have great conversation.  And the first 2 weeks we texted all day everyday. However, he suddenly doesn’t text as regularly anymore. He’s also not a phone or video call guy. What do you think? Is

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When We Don’t Share The Same Beliefs

Hi Thirsty Ladies, I’m a 32 year old guy raised in a typical filipino family. I went to catholic school and was forced by my mom to hear mass every sunday. I guess you could say that I was a “forced practicing” catholic. This all changed when I turned 30. Problems with my career led

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When I’m Annoyed At Her Humor

Dear Thirsty Girls, Like most men lately, I’ve only been able to meet girls through dating apps. You  know, virtual romance is real. My chosen dating app is Bumble because I find the girls to be smarter there as compared to other dating apps. See, I’m a sapiosexual and a self proclaimed book lover. I

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I’ve never had an orgasm… Help!

Hi Girls! I just wanted to start  by telling you how much I love your show! It has made my Wednesday nights so fun. Okay, I am a 30 something year old and I have been in a relationship with my college sweetheart for more than 10 years. Sadly, I’ve never had an orgasm. At

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Explicit toys and she’s not into it…

Dear Thirsty Girls, I’m a German viewer based in Australia. I met a beautiful Filipina and we’ve been dating for a year. Before lockdown, I took her to Sexyland. It’s a sex toy shop in the city of Melbourne that is just a block away from my work. It was an exciting little trip for

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